Red flags on dating
He may be legitimately finished with his marriage emotionally, but the paperwork isn't final. They may be on a trial separation, seeking variety, or way too fresh from a bad relationship to date seriously.” And if the person is still talking about their ex, that’s a red flag. Another one should be added: When a woman says her children come first, over everything else. However, to me, it means I am going to get stood up a lot; that when I am with someone they aren’t going to give me their undivided attention when we aren’t with her kids; and that a woman isn’t really interested in a relationship and is hiding behind her kids.What he/she’s looking for: Requiring too much or too little are both red flags. If the person really doesn’t care, they’re probably looking for a “date,” not a relationship, or he or she may be looking to scam you. When I’ve dated women with children, you can’t believe some of the things parents have called me. I used to date a loser who “worshiped” his supposed ex. Thank God I dumped the POS and now I’m dating a decent guy!Find a woman who is sterile, done with her childbearing, or doesn’t want kids.Don’t put mothers down because you are that much of a narcissist. Take it easy here, you need to grow up and quit with the immature insults.Christan Marashio, founder of And Thats Why Youre Single.com, adds that “it's normal for people to have some trouble crafting a profile and to use self-deprecating humor to lighten the mood.Too much humor is usually a sign that the person is insecure and uncomfortable with being vulnerable, which could lead to problems with emotional intimacy down the road.So improve your chance of success by keeping an eye out for the following red flags as you sort through potential date’s profiles: Photos: Photos can tell you a lot about a potential date.No photo, or a grainy, out-of-focus or outdated photo, are a sign that the person probably has something to hide, or else is not really serious about the dating process.
And, like many other online offerings, the "product" received may not always be what was advertised.If the guy is reluctant or seems “too eager” to meet the kids (like on the first date), that should be a red flag.If you are divorced I can tell you why and if you can’t find any man I can tell you why. Does this mean that your children’s’ spouses will be evil if they prefer their children over you?I’m not saying a mother should put her child 2nd to any guy.What I’m saying is when there is a committed healthy (non abusive) relationship, your mate is important too.